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Filling the Inkwell

Writers Remember Newsletter: August 10, 2006

Volume 2, Issue 3

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Welcome, writers! Writers Remember is here to encourage your creativity and passion for writing.

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IN THIS ISSUE
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1. From the Editor's Desk
2. What's New? -- Literary Warnings & Bewares
3. Coming Soon!
4. Article: This Time, It's Personal, by Kevin Kilgarriff
5. Column: Come Write With Me, with Barbara Deming: Homework
6. Forum Discussions
7. Prompts & Exercises
8. Affiliates
9. Ad Swaps
10. Advertising Information
11. Subscription Information

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1. From the Editor's Desk
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Greetings!

Wow, it sure has been a long time since our last issue! Writers Remember has been on a bit of a hiatus due to some personal issues, but I've been looking forward to getting back on my feet and helping you to stay inspired!

It is also with great pleasure that I announce the name of our newsletter -- Writers Remember: Filling the Inkwell! We believe this name sums up the mission of Writers Remember.

This issue has some great articles from our staff, sharing their encouraging words and inspiration. For our next few issues we're working on some articles that will address some issues happening lately in the world of writing.

I'm also very excited to announce that I'm working on my first E-book, which will be full of information that every writer needs to know -- everything I wish I knew when I first started freelancing! The idea began from an article I was working on and, before I knew it, it became a full-blown idea for an e-book! I'm planning to have it completed and available in the next few months. I'll be updating as it nears completion, and inviting you all to get your copies.

I'd also like to share a personal achievement of sorts -- I'm working as the Senior Community Moderator for Book Lust at Wetpaint, a site based on librarian Nancy Pearl's series of books about recommended favorite books! I'm also involved with several other sites at Wetpaint, including How to Date and Should I Do What I Love -- both based on other books from Sasquatch Publishing. In fact, I've been enjoying the community so much that I've created a few more sites there: Freelance Writing and Mental Health. Please visit and contribute! I'm sure that many of you would love the Book Lust and Freelance Writing sites!

I've also become a bit of a sleuth lately when it comes to writing scams, and this has led me to create a new forum at Writers Remember -- The Writers Beware forum. More about this development below!

Again I want to say "Thank you!" for sticking with us through this time of change. We don't anticipate such newsletter droughts anytime soon!

Enjoy this issue!

Keep writing,

Julia Temlyn

Editor-in-Chief, Writers Remember
http://www.writersremember.com

editor@writersremember.com


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2. What's New? -- Literary Warnings & Bewares: Forum & Web page
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We here at Writers Remember want to help warn you against those who might try to take you for a ride in your writing career. In the interest of helping other writers, we've created a new area of our forum. Visit our Writers Bewares Forum for more information, and to share your stories!

Also, check out our Literary Warnings & Bewares page on the main site!

Do you have an experience to share, or information that might help others from being scammed? Share it with us! E-mail us at editor@writersremember.com

 

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3. Coming Soon!
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-- Writers Remember is working on a section filled with explanations of terms used often in the writing world. We hope this might assist you!

-- Logo contest! We've been trying to come up with a logo since the site was created, but are now hoping to enlist your creativity in coming up with the perfect logo that will fit Writers Remember to a tee! Look for details on this contest coming soon!

-- Writers Remember is working on the debut of its Cafepress shop, where you'll be able to purchase gifts with great inspiration, while supporting Writers Remember. We'll share more information as the store gets up and running!

-- Julia Temlyn, Editor-in-Chief of Writers Remember, is working on an e-book full of helpful information that every writer should know. Look for this in the near future!


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4. Article: This Time It's Personal, by Kevin Kilgarriff
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Should I or shouldn’t I? Would it be wrong for me to include this? Should I even write about this topic? As writers, we’ve all had to step into the ring with that fierce competitor known as “Your Inner Censor.” It creeps in when you least expect it and takes hold of what you had envisioned as the story to end all stories.

It’s completely natural to question whether or not you should include, or even write about, a given topic. There might be an ethical question that goes with covering it. Or it may just be a matter of whether or not you feel that your heart is up to the task.

I’ve recently reached a crossroads, of sorts, in my writing career. For the first time, there’s a part of my life that I’m not certain I want to put out there for public view.

For many writers, the act of writing is an outlet for them. It’s therapeutic to get things off their chest and put their feelings down on paper. For others, it’s only natural to share all of those feelings with the world. They have no boundaries. They have no secrets. Whatever they think and feel, their readers know about it.

I’ve, to some extent, included myself in that latter group. I enjoy sharing my opinions and feelings on things. Stream of consciousness is my favorite way to write. It’s writing in its purest form and, while it might not pay the bills, it’s what I enjoy most. It’s a great way to show what you feel.

I’ve at times mentioned serious life events in my articles or on my blog. I have a number of story/book ideas that include these events -- two of the major ones being the loss of my Mother to cancer and my brother to suicide. I also have a two-year old daughter who was born eleven weeks early and spent seven weeks in the hospital -- seven of the most frightening weeks of my life. These events were traumatizing and life-changing, and I feel compelled, if not obligated, to write about these and share them with the world.

Today though, when I look at these parts of my life, I see them with distant eyes. They’re in the past. The feelings may still be there, but they’re not fresh. To date, the only major life events that I have to share have already happened. They aren’t in progress and I have no problem sharing them with people, having already known the outcome and been pretty sure of my feelings surrounding them.

But now I’ve got something current, still progressing, I’m not sure that I’m ready to share. It’s made me realize that I may not be part of the aforementioned latter group. I may have boundaries, and possibly even secrets, that I’m not ready to share.

As I sit writing this article, my wife and I are waiting for a phone call from a doctor. It may or may not come. I hope it does, and I hope it comes soon. If it doesn’t then we’ve got to wait a week, for the scheduled appointment, to find out what our future holds. The doctor is in the possession of test results that could change our lives forever.

When I first was made aware of this situation, I wrote about it in my journal. I’m not an everyday journal writer, just when the feeling takes me. And this one took me. But as I read what I was writing, I realized that it wasn’t ready for public view. Not because it wasn’t polished or complete. Instead I had decided that this one was mine, and mine alone.

One day I’ll know the outcome of this time in our lives. The anguish we’re currently experiencing was hopefully unfounded, or perhaps not. Regardless, this portion of my life story will have been written and I think it’s safe to say that it will be shared.

One could argue that I’m sharing it now. That I’m giving just enough detail to get the therapeutic benefits without actually revealing what is weighing so heavily on my heart. And they’d be absolutely right. It’s the beauty of writing. It’s the beauty of words. It’s the beauty of what we do.

So as a writer, where do you fit in? Do you wear your heart on your sleeve, or do you keep it close to the vest? Wherever you may fall on the personal info spectrum, please don’t be too concerned. You are who you are. Share what you feel like sharing. Your life is yours and it’s your choice to decide how or if you’ll share it. It’s your right. And no person or profession can deny you that … even when you’re a writer.

Discuss this article here.

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Kevin Kilgarriff is a writer and Recruitment Advertising Account Executive. He's been writing forever (Yes, since the beginning of time!), but didn't choose to share his work until mid-2004. A virtual novice in terms of writing professionally, his goal at Writers Remember is to share his experiences with other writers, and to hopefully help them through the trying times that a writer can encounter.

He blogs at Aspiring Adult and enjoys reading and writing in a variety of genres. His childish jokes are unrivaled and his vast collection of useless information, which he swears will one day be fully utilized, continues to grow exponentially.

Kevin lives in Warrington, PA, just outside of Philadelphia, with his wife and their 2-year old daughter.

 

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5. Come Write With Me, with Barbara Deming: Homework
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"Being a writer is like having homework for the rest of your life.”

-          Lawrence Kasden, Screenwriter

If we writers believe Lawrence Kasden, we are forever in school. Though I enjoyed my school years, I don’t want to repeat them. However, I can see the connection—if I want to produce work that is saleable, I must become more disciplined. That means I should work at my writing, each day if possible, set certain goals, strive to learn more—even give myself homework.

My problem is I don’t schedule (discipline)  time away from the other things in my life to do what I love most—write. I have a husband and home to care for, I volunteer as a librarian for our local senior center, and I teach several writing classes. When do I have time for homework? When do you?

We all procrastinate. We have more time than we believe we do; we just don’t use the extra time well. We’ve heard it all—get up an hour early or stay up an extra hour to write. Write on the train or bus as we head for work (in Southern California we drive everywhere, so skip this one). Use your laptop on planes or while waiting in the airport. Those are the usual suggestions given. Can you think of any unique snatches of time in which to write?

I keep writing material in every room in my house, in my handbag or briefcase, and in my car. During my pre-Christmas baking, I sat on a kitchen stool and wrote in the seven-to-ten minute intervals between batches of cookies. I write in the car while waiting on my hubby to attend to banking, get a haircut, or even while he plays a few games of pool (billiards) with his buddies. My bathroom holds a mini-office with pens, pad on clipboard, and books. Many a draft has come out of what would have otherwise been lost time. Do you watch a few favorite television shows? Think of how many self-imposed homework assignments you could accomplish by merely writing during the commercials.

Assign yourself homework. No math equations necessary. Set a goal to work on your current project or make notes for a new one. You’ll be surprised to find that time can be found to complete all of your homework.

Discuss this article here.

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Barbara Deming lives, teaches, and writes in San Marcos, CA. Her latest book, Growing up Barefoot in the South (Essays by a Southern Writer), and her collection of short stories, The Quilt Maker, may both be purchased at www.Amazon.com. A completed novel is with an agent and she is working on another collection of quilt stories, a romantic suspense novel, and a nonfiction book on hooking your reader.

 

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6. Forum Discussions
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Want to participate in a book discussion? (We will be voting for the book very soon, so be sure to read our next issue for the update on how to vote in our forum!) Read more...

The scoop on a very-current writing scam by FountainPenn & Roberto & Danielle-Kim Davis. Read more...

Avoiding "display" sites. Read more...

What are you reading? Read more...

What do you think of Wordpress? Read more...

Thoughts on getting paid to blog? Read more...

Join us over at the Writers Remember forum, and share in the discussions, or start a discussion of your own!

 

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7. Prompts & Exercises
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Check out our photo prompts, brought to us by Kelly!

Visit our Prompts & Exercises forum for some great fun!

 

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8. Affiliates
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Interested in being an affiliate with Writers Remember? E-mail us! editor@writersremember.com

 

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9. Ad Swaps
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